| Sr. Mary Coswin, OSB
My
Benedictine teachers at St. Benedict’s Academy probably
considered me to be “the least likely” to enter the
monastery. In the early ‘60’s my back-combed hair, love
of all dance especially the twist and smoking did not
indicate my suitability for religious life. However, I
have been part of the community since 1963 and we can
laugh at all that now. My life as a Benedictine sister
has been surprise, grace and opportunity to grow into
who God created me to be.
Born and growing up in central
Winnipeg, I attended public schools until Grade 8. At
that time the Benedictine Sisters opened a day and
boarding school at the north end of the city; I was one
of the first students, registering as a resident.
Having been an only child till age 9, I took advantage
of the camaraderie of so many friends, right there
around me.
I was moved and drawn by the Sisters’
chapel and the daily morning and evening prayers. I
especially loved night prayer when we sang and prayed as
the setting sun blazed through the gorgeous
stained-glass windows. God can use anything to attract
us! And it certainly helped to feel, not just loved but
liked by the sisters.
Though
I was quite young, my mother did not discourage me from
entering. Friends & cousins didn’t really understand but
then, who could blame them?! One of my friends was
worried about me and tried to figure out a way to
“rescue“ me.
After entering the Monastery, I
completed high school and teachers’ training and then
taught academic subjects and religious studies in junior
and senior high; later I worked as a school counsellor.
I loved being with high school-ers, listening to their
questions and sharing their sorrows and joys. Of course
the teenagers were curious about my lifestyle, more than
once asking if I really didn’t keep my pay check and
couldn’t get married and have kids. I enjoyed bringing
them to the monastery to let them have a taste of
monastic life.
The
monastic community gave me the opportunity to work in
vocation and formation work, as Director of our retreat
centre and, most recently, I spent five years in
Edmonton offering spiritual direction, retreats and
training new spiritual directors.
I am blessed now to work at our
retreat centre. Blessed because we have this beautiful
home and grounds and spirituality to share with hundreds
of people who come through our doors. Seeking God is my
life and helping others seek God is my ministry. I love
doing both with a community of wise women.
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